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Friday, 29 April 2011

Month 4 Day 29 - Happily ever after

Hello
Well a beautiful day for a Royal wedding, not too hot and the rain held off. It's lovely to see the whole country (or what seems like the whole country) behind Prince William and his bride. I heard on the news someone say that it's all for monarcy public relations, he said it in a negative way and I think that some people can't understand the pressure that people like William are under. His mother for all her goodness, turned into a bitter woman full of despair and seriously damaged the relationship the public had with the monarcy. Having said that though I think Prince Charles is a good man, he has protected his children and helped keep their privacy. It's good to see him happy and all the upheaval of the past could have been avoided had he been allowed the bride of his choice.
Wills and Kate looked truely happy and I know from experience that the best husbands are often the best friends, love and kids etc are the bonuses that come along with being married to your best friend. Your friend knows you inside and out and they love you exactly as you are, because there was no alterior motive to begin with. The most important thing in any relationship is trust and friends are very often more trustworthy than lovers. I don't know the actual reason for Kate not giving Wills a ring but I think it goes a long way in showing the trust she has in him. She did not need to place a band on his finger to prove he belongs to her. And he does believe in her, the smile and sneaky looks say it all. I know because I give these looks and I get these looks from my very BEST friend, my husband, that doesn't mean we don't fight, but it does mean that he understands every single one of my moods and tempers. He knew them before we loved each other and he accepts them now as who I am and I don't have to be anyone different that me.
To Wills and Kate may I wish them love, peace and joy. To everyone else I wish true love and the opportunity to have a best friend.
In love and light

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